I got a call early in the morning a few days ago from a very special guy who wanted me to teach him about a couple things. He asked me about my past relationships, the things I liked and looked for with a guy. And then he asked me if I’d ever done any tease and denial. I laughed for a second, of course I had and I loved it. He asked if I could tell him a little bit about my past experiences with it. “Like how does it work exactly?” he asked. I told him the best way to do it was to start slow.

First you start with just a little while… maybe a week. After a week I like to tease his cock with soft, light touches and strokes, going on for hours, until, of course he’s begging to cum. “Well I can let you cum now, or you can wait two more weeks and then I’ll give you a proper hand job.” Then in two weeks I give him a hand job and stop before he’s ready to cum. “Oh I didn’t say you could cum, I just said I’d give you a hand job. If you wait a month I’ll give you a blow job and let you cum in my mouth.” Then in a month while I’m giving him the blow job, I stop mid way through. “Are you sure you want to cum now? If you wait two months I’ll have sex with you…”

I think you can see where this is going. My caller still had questions, like, “What if when you’re doing the teasing, he cums.” Easy, it’s pretty clear when a man is getting ready to cum, and it’s easy to stop it. I stop whatever I’m doing, reach down and pinch the extremely sensitive skin around his balls and twist. Easy. He won’t cum then.

Do you have some questions about tease and denial? Maybe you want to do a little guided play. I’d love to teach you how…

xoxo Samantha

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